Baltimore, MD - Jan 29, 2026 - In the late ‘60s there was a popular phrase, “it’s 11 PM, do you know where your children are?” Today in 2026 the takeoff of that is, “It’s winter break, do you know what your plans are?” It used to be that winter break was exactly how it sounded; a break from school, a break from the hectic schedules our lives are filled with. I’m not sure when that changed. Today, winter break means what are you doing, i.e. WHERE are you going? Don’t get me wrong. I am all up for vacay, skiing/snowtubing, fun in the sun, or whatever floats your boat. I love adventures and personally, my happy place is the beach. There is however something to be said about staying put and staying home. That doesn’t mean you look at the walls of your home doing nothing or start pesach cleaning. Fun, fun. Children are home and there’s nothing more insanity-inducing than bored children that makes you want to climb said walls. Planning is a must, but in that planning, and even in that trip taking, don’t forget why you’re doing what you’re doing. Family time is of utmost importance and even more so in today’s day and age when the definition of family in modern society has morphed into whatever one deems it to be.
We are at the midpoint of the school year. The children, no matter the age, are working hard in school. Academic, behavior and social emotional issues are in full swing. It is also bitter cold and kids can’t play outside. Our children and students (and teachers!) are also climbing the walls. They need a break. Along comes this pause in the year for that. Make sure to utilize this and ensure that your kids, and you, get that breather. Going on a big trip, especially one that involves an airplane, is fun! Be mindful that you’re not filling it with jampacked adventures and very late nights. That’s where the expression of, “I need a vacation from my vacation” comes in.” I know that for some families and their schedules this may be the only time to have such a vacation, or visit family, or whatever other reason they rightfully have, and it is a great opportunity to explore fill-in-the blank place or just chill together. To those families I say, have a great time and don’t forget the sunscreen! I am reminded of a story with a former preschool student. His family finally travelled to the sunshine state. Upon his return, after a snowstorm here and hearing that his fellow classmates played in the snow, he shared that he was really disappointed he couldn’t do that. He preferred playing in the snow over the trip to the sunny destination. Oh, to be a kid. Oh, to be a parent and recognize that!
If you’re one of the few people remaining in Baltimore (besides this writer), or what feels like it to you, take note: You are breathing. You are recharging. You are just like that winter tree in the soil we talk about for the upcoming Chag of Tu B’Shvat. The sap is slowly going up the trunk. The cold earth is experiencing movement as the roots are waking up in preparation for what’s to come in the spring.
Ok, so you’re staying home. Now what? Permit me to share some ideas for my fellow staycation-ers: Sleep-late-days are a luxury and necessity that is free! Baking cookies, or hamantaschen if you’re that motivated, is not only delicious, it is also memory making that your kids will treasure when they become adults with their own children. The simple pleasure of discovering a far away library is also free and so fun! Do you know where the biggest Target is in the state of Maryland is? Do you know about the two-story Targets with an escalator for shopping carts? Taking a trip to a dollar store and buying art supplies and assorted size canvas to make an in-house paint/craft shop is another inexpensive way to have fun. If you have teens, do your research with neighbors and friends and find out interesting day trips to take. One activity that your children can’t do often during the school year: Sleepovers. It’s not that long of a break so there is less pressure to entertain, and remember this is a breather not an extended vacation that you have to plan for minute by minute. Here’s another revolutionary thought. It’s OK if your kids experience boredom. Shocker. It gives them a chance for them to figure things out on their own and discover likes, hobbies and talents that they don’t normally get to do when bogged down with homework and routine. It’s also a good time for you to escape, I mean go grocery shopping or have some exercise time. There’s no shame in hiring a babysitter (or one of your older children) for this! Sometimes you just need to make appointments or take care of the mundane but necessary errands like shoe shopping and haircuts. That’s ok too! It’s called modeling for your children responsibility and time management. Don’t forget to treat yourself and family to take out or dining out! I remember growing up as a kid, with a mother working full time not by choice, winter break was spent sleeping in, reading, getting together with friends and going out for ice cream.
Flex those creative latent parenting skills and you’ll be pleasantly surprised to see what you can come up with that doesn’t involve spending lots of money or screen usage. Some parents do need to work, surprise, surprise. That’s where tag-teaming comes in so plan with your spouse who does what on which day. For single parents, this is the time to reach out to family, friends and neighbors. My mom did this. I have “fond” memories of dusting my mom’s friend’s piano, but then I was rewarded with a Coke (a forbidden drink) and hey, I learned how to dust! If you’re a family member, friend or neighbor reading this then you know what you need to do! That doesn’t include dusting!
This winter break, remind yourself that you are being given an opportunity with the Blessings Hashem has given you, your children. Blessings are not always easy. Additionally, you are giving your children a message that is valuable and everlasting.
It is this: Spending time together doesn’t have to come with a price tag. It starts in the very best place in the world; your home, and home is where the heart is. Your children will thank you for this. One day…