In this week’s Pirkei Avos (1:17), the Mishnah says: “All my days I have been raised among the Sages.”

Rav Elyashiv explains that R’ Shimon uses the words “kol yamai”“all my days” — to emphasize that throughout his entire life, even after he became the Nasi and the leader of the generation, he still made sure to stay close to Torah scholars. According to this explanation, it makes sense that this Mishnah follows the previous one. The phrase “Asei lecha Rav” — “make for yourself a Rav” — is repeated to teach us that even a great Rav must still seek advice and guidance from another Rav.

I clearly remember learning this lesson from my menahel in Mechinas Ner Yisroel, Rabbi Yosef Tendler, zt”l. He always made sure to have a Rav — a rebbi — to guide him. Even though he was a menahel for over fifty years and helped shape the lives of countless bnei Torah, he never felt he could do without a rebbi of his own.

He was a close talmid of the great Rav Aharon Kotler, zt”l, from Bais Medrash Govoha in Lakewood. After Rav Kotler was niftar, he became a talmid of Rav Avigdor Miller, zt”l. He would learn Rav Miller’s seforim like a student learning directly from his rebbi. And when Rav Miller was niftar, he took Rav Mattisyahu Salomon, zt”l — who was many years younger than he — as his new rebbi. He would learn Rav Mattisyahu’s seforim regularly and often quoted them.

I had the privilege of learning weekly with Rabbi Tendler from one of those seforim. I couldn’t help but notice how he approached the learning — with the humility and respect of a talmid learning from his own rebbi. Despite all he had accomplished, he deeply felt the need to always have someone to learn from.

No matter where one is in life, or how much one has achieved, a person always needs a rebbi.

Rabbi Moshe Dov Heber is a rebbe at Yeshiva K'tana of Waterbury and a division head in  Camp Romimu. He is a writer and public speaker, focusing on topics related to inspiration and education. Rabbi Heber could be reached via email mdheber@ykwaterbury.org